http://www.gnorb.net/800/too-hard-or-not-hard-enough-an-internal-struggle Fiction has to be plausible. Reality is under no such constraint. Thu, 26 Jan 2012 04:13:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.gnorb.net/800/too-hard-or-not-hard-enough-an-internal-struggle#comment-27213 The Wife Mon, 26 Feb 2007 18:56:15 +0000 http://www.gnorb.net/movies-and-music/20070224/too-hard-or-not-hard-enough-an-internal-struggle/#comment-27213 I like to think of it as a balancing act. On one side, we risk being "too weak," letting ourselves go, laziness etc. On the other side, we risk expecting SO much from ourselves that we continually beat ourselves up if we don't meet our own expectations. We have to continually play the balancing act and stay mid-way. I like to think of it as a balancing act. On one side, we risk being “too weak,” letting ourselves go, laziness etc. On the other side, we risk expecting SO much from ourselves that we continually beat ourselves up if we don’t meet our own expectations. We have to continually play the balancing act and stay mid-way.

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